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d21lewis said:

What sense does it make?  I work overtime, pay 80% of the bills, and actually have a savings account with actual savings.  My GF always finds a way to stay home from work, only pays her car payment, her car insurance, and buys groocery--and bill collectors are still constantly calling her.  AND if I buy a game, accesory, or something like that, it's a waste of money--She has absolutely no problem with me taking her out and blowing $60 on dinner or something (or spending somewhere in the neighborhood of $500 on our trip to Atlanta this weekend) and STILL asking me for $1000 for a party we're having next month.

I'm this close to saying, "Fuck it!" and running for my life.

That really stinks

Have you ever talked to her about it?  Listening to Dave Ramsey occasionally on the radio, sometimes you can make people like that see the light

I truly do wish you the best of luck, as it is unfortunate that you have found yourself in that situation.



Money can't buy happiness. Just video games, which make me happy.