PSN vs XBL which is better?

[deskpro2k3]

smroadkill15 said:

 

(a list of stuff)

the most common thing in the list is voice chat, and knowing almost everything what your friends are doing. including their profile.  DLC is a given. that is pretty much what you're paying for.

 

It should be free...

 

so what do you get for not paying?