Games4Fun said:
Well the word YOU does not apply in this case. Anyways,everyone has a bit of awkwardness there first time. So age does not really make any difference there.Not having sex does not mean have a negative view of sex. Where the hell you get that? This is not a black or white issue hardly anything is.Plus, how many people end up with very deep issues because they are so in to sex? Who gives a rats ass if someone wants to wait for that someone? One of my friends is and will come right out and tell you he is a man whore. Not once has he tried to make anyone feel bad for not wanting to have sexual intercourse. IN fact, he was dating this one girl who was a virgin at 19. When he found out he simply called it off because ofcourse he wanted sex. Not once has he made it out to be some horrible thing that will lead to deep issues. Because maybe it will maybe it wont. Same thing if you sleep around. Maybe it will cause you deep issues maybe it wont. He respects that I choose to be careful about who I sleep with. Just the same as I still respect him and his whoreness. It does not affect anyone else so who cares? Its bullshit for anyone to try to make someone who practices abstinence to feel wrong for it. Its some of the dumbest shit I have ever heard. |
To all I offended I'm sorry. what I was getting at is that in my experience it has and usually does end up bad for a long term relationship. I guess you could call me a picky whore. I also don't sleep with anyone but have slept with a lot of girls. Not bragging and in no way do I think, wow what a great achievement. I just happen to be in the dj business for over ten years. I went to 3 different highschools and have a hard time saying no to smoking hot girls that is not a slut but wants to get down or girls I thought I would be into more, then to find out there bad traits. I don't bang slutbags and tried to make relationships work but I'm picky, trial and error. My deal is that I didn't want to be miserable like most other marriages or couples and so I tested a lot of different waters and watched and learned a lot. I will be 29 in september and just in the last few years found a girl that I'm perfect with.
I have been around the block a few times and had a lot of bad and good experiences. Oh yea, always, always use protection. No reason not too. I have usually but when I didn't, I would sweat it until I got tested. Got the clap once and it was pretty Imbarressing. Never got anything else and feel That it was because, one I was picky about who it was and usually always rapped it up. Even if she said she was a virgin, You can never be certain. Yes a girl can be a reborn virgin if she waits long enough, as far as the whole, you know, tight, b----- thing goes. we don't need to go any further then that. Just rap that sh-t.
I also think that sex can kill or make a relationship work. Now it's not going to make it work if you are just not compatible. I have had girls that I just dated for a few months or friends with benefits because the sex was just incredible. There is also the issue If the girl wants to stick whatever, somewhere and your not into that. Well there you go Or if your freaky in certain ways that she is totally not, There you go.
You may not think sex plays a role now but as you get older it does. It's far from the most important thing but wow do I now a lot guys that hate there lifes because they don't ever get any or she won't do that or this and actually they go and cheat. These are also guys I thought would never cheat. I also didn't want to be that guy either. No reason to cheat if you get what you want. That usually takes time and it did for me. I have been with my girl for almost 3 years. I've also seen friends lose and about kill people. I had a friend go to jail for attempted murder for a girl. Tried to kill the guy she was fulling around with. Yes I've been cheated on and walked away thinking that me finding out so quick was a blessing.
So there you go, that's why I made some douche bag comments earlier and maybe was amped up because of the week it was, actuall that was a bad week. I found out some bad health news about someone. So take from it what you want. I can say I have had a shit load of experience, not only in everywhere I went but with my older sisters friends to my years of djing and experiences with different cultures. My sister used to make the joke that she was going to take me on Jerry Springer for hooking up with her friends. I kinda of killed some of here friendships but I was young and full of c--. Yep you guessed it.
So thats why I made the virgin and experience comment. Just came out way offensive and exculated quick. There are good girls out there and believe me I have thought I had one and didn't. Point being that was when I got cheated on. I was 16-17 at the time. Yes there are some but thats it, some! Feel lucky if you do have that and I hope you do.
Let the fonz be with you. AEYYYYYYYYYYYYY!
