sapphi_snake said:
Waiting to have sex 'till your 30s is more likely to cause "issues" then sleeping around a lot. Actually, I remember reading a psychological study that found that people who remained virgins after the age of 22 were very likely to develop sexual dysfunction. And there's a big difference between "being careful about who you sleep with" and "waiting for that someone". That "someone" does not exist. Now obviously making someone feel bad for being a virgin is not cool, though neither is trying to make people who like to have lots of sex feel bad about themselves.In the end people can do whatever they want, but we are just having a conversation here about this topic. Do you find that sex is something dirty? Shameful? Would you feel guilty having sex with someone you found attractive, yet had no romantic feelings towards? Do you feel that sex is perverted unless it's "with that someone". If the answer to any of those questions is YES then you have a negative view of sex. |
kinda should have went that route. I worded it a little to personal and got a little off topic, You think? One of those weeks! However I agree with you fully. I seen a lot of my buddies get hurt bad over this and thats why I posted. Also had a lot of the same so called honored virgins or should I say recent virgins come onto me. I'm not saying bad girls either, preppy, smart, cheerleaders and also in later years, buisness types and all. Girls that stayed with there first for a year or so and then just up and left. Plus I had a few and didn't get to wrapped up cause I was warned not to and they where right to warn me. However now I have a beautiful girl and she has went through her wild side and doesn't care for any of that anymore. I'm not saying she was a slut but had around 10 guys or so, partied, had her fun. I kinda of investigated too. Can't help it I know everyone that knows everyone and want to know if people lye right off the bat. I didn't want to come clean with how many girls I had for some weeks after I met her. I'm picky but on subject. She knows what she wants and I'm her priority. Mostly sticks by myside playing video games, Dirtbiking and many other things that actually most girls won't do. I Can say my boys that are married are jelouse and others tell me I'm lucky as I know.
Not only that but we just click and thats why I'm glad I made some rounds and figured out what was best for me and didn't just settle. I actually did try to settle in two other relationships for some time until I ended it because fighting was a every week thing. With my girl now, we barely ever fight and when we do it is over in 5 min. She's not the drama type and doesn't care to make it a all out war. Plus you got these girls that want to hold sex. My girl is not a nympho but does not hold sex. I had a girl like that, WTF? That was over quick. I'm not going to go jerk off all the time if I have a girl. That is a interesting study you and the other guy posted up and actually comes to my aid even though I totally failed at my interpretation of it. In some since that was also what I was trying to get at. Alright well I'm talking your face off and have went on forever. Peace out.
