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pizzahut451 said:

sapphi_snake said:

d21lewis said:

Here's my thing.  Okay, I'm a black male with a black fiance and we have a wonderful daughter.  For whatever reason, I've always been attracted to a variety of females.  I've actually made a list of every girl I've ever dated and more than half of them were white.  It just worked out like that.  I rarely chased after them.  Maybe the first couple, but after that I never really chased after anybody.

Well, I've been loyal to my GF since 2009.  For some reason or another, white females still approach me.  They smile and laugh at whatever I say, even when I'm not trying to be funny.  Hell, sometimes I don't even say anything.  They just come up to me and start talking and I get nervous because I'm trying really hard not to accidentally have sex with them.  My black friends that have never been with a white female (but still want to be with one) don't have a clue what I'm doing differently.  Neither do I!  I mean, I like all sorts of music (but I hide it from them), hang out with all kinds of people (I don't hang out much lately, though), and that's about it.

Here's my question--and I know it's crazy but I can't come up with any other conclusion:  Is there some sort of way that white females can detect when a black guy has dated/is attracted to a white female?  And for the record, most black females seem to avoid my ass like the plague.  I can't even carry a decent conversation with them, most of the time.

#3: Maybe black women are smarter than white women, and they can determine who's a "player" more easily?

 

That's racist

You're just sad that black women won't date you 'cause you're a player.