Here's my thing. Okay, I'm a black male with a black fiance and we have a wonderful daughter. For whatever reason, I've always been attracted to a variety of females. I've actually made a list of every girl I've ever dated and more than half of them were white. It just worked out like that. I rarely chased after them. Maybe the first couple, but after that I never really chased after anybody.
Well, I've been loyal to my GF since 2009. For some reason or another, white females still approach me. They smile and laugh at whatever I say, even when I'm not trying to be funny. Hell, sometimes I don't even say anything. They just come up to me and start talking and I get nervous because I'm trying really hard not to accidentally have sex with them. My black friends that have never been with a white female (but still want to be with one) don't have a clue what I'm doing differently. Neither do I! I mean, I like all sorts of music (but I hide it from them), hang out with all kinds of people (I don't hang out much lately, though), and that's about it.
Here's my question--and I know it's crazy but I can't come up with any other conclusion: Is there some sort of way that white females can detect when a black guy has dated/is attracted to a white female? And for the record, most black females seem to avoid my ass like the plague. I can't even carry a decent conversation with them, most of the time.