PSN vs XBL which is better?

[dsister]

When I could play on Live and PSN I didn't really notice much of a difference between the two. Yeah, Killzone 2 lagged quite a bit where my 360 games didn't, and everyone who played were sexist pigs(and I didn't have a mic so I couldn't defend myself :'(). Besides that though I really didn't see much of a difference 

 

Also:

http://www.cinemablend.com/games/Section-8-X-Servers-Allow-For-Up-To-32-Players-On-Xbox-360-19194.html
http://www.thq-games.com/uk/news/show/3323

 

So obviously the player count/ dedicated server decision is based solely on the developer. XBL doesn't restrict that at all