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sapphi_snake said:
Games4Fun said:
sapphi_snake said:
Games4Fun said:
bobbert said:

P.S.

If I met a girl who was 21 and still a virgin, that would mean she has some serious issues.

lol at the guy talking about his 'future wife', I'm sure telling girls that you plan on staying a virgin makes them all come flocking. Once you realize that girls want and enjoy sex as much as guys do, you'll be a much happier man.


Not sure how anyone being 21 and a virgin means they have issues. You do realize there are  plenty of people in the world  that save themsevles for different reasons still right? Not one thing wrong with it. Hell, im 29 not a virgin and im still picky as hell about who I will have sexual relations with.

At some point no one will want to pick you if you wait too much. Being a 30-year-old virgin isn't sexy.


Maybe not to some people but to some others it would be appealing. Though I dont think that many people go that long. I recall in HS some people puttin gme down because I was a virgin till I was 16, which was completely by choice. While a couple of them regretted who they lost it to I never have. Pretty easy price to pay for me. Plus, while I diffently enjoy sex, it is not the only thing I am looking for in a woman (not saying you are). I just dont get why its such a big deal to someone if someone else choses. to be abstinent till they are ready and with the person they feel they should  be with. Plus, to say that person must has issues really???

How do you know if you enjoy sex if you've never had sex? And don't you think that you'll have trouble when you'll try to have sex (awkwardness, maybe even some psychological barriers erected do to your long period of abstinence and negative views of sex?).

Well the word YOU does not apply in this case. Anyways,everyone has a bit of awkwardness there first time. So age does not really make any difference there.Not having sex does not mean have a negative view of sex. Where the hell you get that?  This is not a black or white issue hardly anything is.Plus, how many people end up with very deep issues because they are so in to sex? Who gives a rats ass if someone wants to wait for that someone?

One of my friends is and will come right out and tell you he is a man whore. Not once has he tried to make anyone feel bad for not wanting to have sexual intercourse. IN fact, he was dating this one girl who was a virgin at 19. When he found out he simply called it off because ofcourse he wanted sex.  Not once has he made it out to be some horrible thing that will lead to deep issues. Because maybe it will maybe it wont. Same thing if you sleep around. Maybe it will cause you deep issues maybe it wont. He respects that I choose to be careful about who I sleep with. Just the same as I still respect him and his whoreness. It does not affect anyone else so who cares? Its bullshit for anyone to try to make someone who practices abstinence to feel wrong for it. Its some of the dumbest shit I have ever heard.