sapphi_snake said:
How do you know if you enjoy sex if you've never had sex? And don't you think that you'll have trouble when you'll try to have sex (awkwardness, maybe even some psychological barriers erected do to your long period of abstinence and negative views of sex?). |
Well the word YOU does not apply in this case. Anyways,everyone has a bit of awkwardness there first time. So age does not really make any difference there.Not having sex does not mean have a negative view of sex. Where the hell you get that? This is not a black or white issue hardly anything is.Plus, how many people end up with very deep issues because they are so in to sex? Who gives a rats ass if someone wants to wait for that someone?
One of my friends is and will come right out and tell you he is a man whore. Not once has he tried to make anyone feel bad for not wanting to have sexual intercourse. IN fact, he was dating this one girl who was a virgin at 19. When he found out he simply called it off because ofcourse he wanted sex. Not once has he made it out to be some horrible thing that will lead to deep issues. Because maybe it will maybe it wont. Same thing if you sleep around. Maybe it will cause you deep issues maybe it wont. He respects that I choose to be careful about who I sleep with. Just the same as I still respect him and his whoreness. It does not affect anyone else so who cares? Its bullshit for anyone to try to make someone who practices abstinence to feel wrong for it. Its some of the dumbest shit I have ever heard.