| Joelcool7 said: Sapphi just because someone has a different view then you doesn't make it unhealthy. You think his views are unhealthy he thinks yours are. What proof do you have to prove that his beliefs are unhealthy? Their are far more negatives to having pre-marital sex then their are positives. Even with a condom you can still get STD's and unwanted Pregnancies. Infact even on the pill some girls get pregnant. Not to mention the emotional drama pre-marital sex causes, maybe not that much for men but for many girls sex is a big thing. Name one actual negative thing that happens if you choose to abstain till marriage? You can't because their is no negatives, other then the fact you haven't experianced sex. |
There are studies that show that sex-negative attitudes, like people like him hold, have a negative psychological impact on the individual, leading to future sexual dysfunction. Sex is just a simple biological act, that is all. Making it out to be more then it really is is damaging to the human psyche.
The negative consiquences of having pre-marital sex are no better than the arguments for not driving a car (you can get into a car accident etc.). If you're responsable, it's unlikely that any of those things will happen. Believing otherwise is just paranoia.
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