Are you a virgin?

[Joelcool7]

sapphi_snake said:

Naraku_Diabolos said:

I keep my promises and I would never break that. Lindsay was precious and I vowed to be there for her always. She would want me to be happy now but to still keep that promise I made to her. I always will. I'm Catholic and so was she. I view sex as being sacred. Besides, if I wanted sex right now, it would be to have a son or a daughter (namely a daughter because I cherish girls). I feel that way because all my friends have children and I work at a daycare (most of the time with infants), and I love the children (and babies). But yeah, I'm saving myself for marriage because of my promise I made to Lindsay and wanting a child.

I think you have very unhealthy views regarding sex.

Sapphi just because someone has a different view then you doesn't make it unhealthy. You think his views are unhealthy he thinks yours are. What proof do you have to prove that his beliefs are unhealthy?

Their are far more negatives to having pre-marital sex then their are positives. Even with a condom you can still get STD's and unwanted Pregnancies. Infact even on the pill some girls get pregnant. Not to mention the emotional drama pre-marital sex causes, maybe not that much for men but for many girls sex is a big thing.

Name one actual negative thing that happens if you choose to abstain till marriage? You can't because their is no negatives, other then the fact you haven't experianced sex.