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trasharmdsister12 said:
Naraku_Diabolos said:

I made a pact almost 6 years ago to my ex-girlfriend that her and I would wait until marriage. We didn't break that promise, but after she died later that month in a car wreck, I still carry that promise that I made to her. Call me crazy, but I wear a Promise Ring in remembrance to her and the pact I made and I won't break it until marriage.


Hey man. I'm really sorry to hear that. What you're doing is really admirable in my view. I hope you find what you're looking for as you deserve it from the sound of your story.

I keep my promises and I would never break that. Lindsay was precious and I vowed to be there for her always. She would want me to be happy now but to still keep that promise I made to her. I always will. I'm Catholic and so was she. I view sex as being sacred. Besides, if I wanted sex right now, it would be to have a son or a daughter (namely a daughter because I cherish girls). I feel that way because all my friends have children and I work at a daycare (most of the time with infants), and I love the children (and babies). But yeah, I'm saving myself for marriage because of my promise I made to Lindsay and wanting a child.