Are you a virgin?

[sapphi_snake]

Joelcool7 said:

This depends on your world view or religious beliefs. I believe that sex inside marriage is a great thing however when done with tons of partners outside of marriage it looses meaning as well as can cause many problems.

However even laying religion aside and going only on a moral basis. Some people just want to save something that special for their loved one.

If you choose not to have sex out of moral basis and you abstain you should be really proud especially if you made it through HighSchool. Everyone and I mean everyone was/is having sex and the choice to not have sex goes against our western culture. To stand up against peer pressure, your hormones etc...etc... thats something to be proud of.

Its like how people who have never tried a joint or any illegal drug are proud that they didn't, or how about someone who prides themselves for not drinking alcohol?

Lets ask the opposite question, should you be proud to have had meaningless sex, or even sex with multiple people with some meaning? No you shouldn't be, why? Because you didn't do anything special everybody has sex whats so special about you having sex?

Now I'm not saying I'm better then anyone who's had sex, I'm just saying I am proud to have resisted temptation and gone against the wind so to speak. Anyone can have sex , but not anyone can abstain!

I think that in Western culture only guys are encouraged to loose their virginity quickly (it's a right of passage, and a very cool one too ). Girls however are enocuraged to do the opposite.

Anyways, people will find pressure from all sides to both keep or loose their virginity. In the end people shoudl be able to make their own choice, without being criticised that they made a "lame" or "immoral" choice.

As for the bolded question, if a person loves sex why shouldn't he or she be proud to have had lots of sex with lots of people?

Having sex really isn't as easy as you think, especially if you're picky.