Are you a virgin?

[Joelcool7]

sapphi_snake said:

Joelcool7 said:

I am, because I'm Christian. No need to get into my beliefs.

As for being proud, I find it funny some people don't think I or others should be proud. Why wouldn't we out of everyone I know I know less then ten people who have held onto their virginity. It is a very hard thing to do and everyone is pressuring you to have sex.

Heck our culture makes Virgin's look like loosers but it takes alot of strength to hold onto your virginity. Its something admirable. Anyone who can say they are a virgin in today's soceity has my respect and I would think people would respect our commitment's to our beliefs.

Staying a virgin is the hardest thing I have ever done and I continue to do so. I used to be a jock and in good shape though today it's alittle easier because I'm no longer that attractive. But even being unattractive I have had oppurtunities. Its really hard to remain a virgin and sexually "Pure".

So yes I have alot of pride about being a virgin and every other virgin here should be damn proud about it too.

I think some people couldn't get laid even if they paid for it.

Also, why is it admirable to stay a virgin? There's nithing inherently wrong with having sex, so there's really no logical reason why you should aim to stay a virgin.

This depends on your world view or religious beliefs. I believe that sex inside marriage is a great thing however when done with tons of partners outside of marriage it looses meaning as well as can cause many problems.

However even laying religion aside and going only on a moral basis. Some people just want to save something that special for their loved one.

If you choose not to have sex out of moral basis and you abstain you should be really proud especially if you made it through HighSchool. Everyone and I mean everyone was/is having sex and the choice to not have sex goes against our western culture. To stand up against peer pressure, your hormones etc...etc... thats something to be proud of.

Its like how people who have never tried a joint or any illegal drug are proud that they didn't, or how about someone who prides themselves for not drinking alcohol?

Lets ask the opposite question, should you be proud to have had meaningless sex, or even sex with multiple people with some meaning? No you shouldn't be, why? Because you didn't do anything special everybody has sex whats so special about you having sex?

Now I'm not saying I'm better then anyone who's had sex, I'm just saying I am proud to have resisted temptation and gone against the wind so to speak. Anyone can have sex , but not anyone can abstain!