I love a girl who doesn't love me

[huaxiong90]

Galaki said:

huaxiong90 said:

Baalzamon said:

I don't know if I would listen to you either with the kind of advice you seem to offer.

Well, life has taught me harsh things. I would love to believe there's another way, but based on what I've experienced...no good comes out of trying to be the forgiving person.

I know who my friends and enemies are.

Btw, it would be nice if you'd at least say why. Just criticizing me without reasoning is not only insulting, but it's also not going to change what you dislike about my advice.

Yeah, being nice is one thing. But continueing to be nice and getting yourself hurt at the same time is stupidity.

There are also a lot of sarcasm and jokes going on in the posts, so, don't take things too seriously and get angry and offensive over silly forum posts.

And that's what I've learned 6 years ago, and I learned it the hard way...I would be treated like a liability, despite the person continuously being hurt by his gf. I tried to remain there with him, until my patience failed me. If they realize their mistake and want to have a long, mature discussion about it all so as to sort things out, then I'm all ears. But I'm not going to be put in the same situation I did during that time. Ever since, I've been cautious about second chances.

Btw, I'm not angry, but it is annoying when people just criticize and then leave.