I love a girl who doesn't love me

[Galaki]

sapphi_snake said:

Naraku_Diabolos said:

Girls don't give us nice guys a chance a lot of the time until they realize when they are endangered by a guy they chose over us.

Are you trying to eclipse the bride?

That seems like what it is at first glance.

But, IMO, it's the "nice guy" that gives that impression that you're the fallback guy. Why should she try it out with you first if she could try it out with someone else that she only had one chance? If that doesn't work, she could always come back to you.

The point is that, you have to let her know you are not cool with being the second choice. Take it or beat it.