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Naraku_Diabolos on 17 February 2011
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GodOfWar_3ever said:
Aldro said:

You handled things the wrong way... I mean.. "I love you".. What the HELL man?!

She clearly had no feelings for you and honestly, if she dated that douche you should stay out of it and leave them be. She's clearly attracted to the "bad guy" type, probably due to confidence which makes me wonder if you really were as confident as you thought you were. Takes balls to do what you did though, so gj. All relationships will end eventually (at our age, I asume you're not 21 ) and what we gain from them is one thing -> Experience.

Even though you never really were a couple, you had a pretty nasty crush on her and you managed to stay friends with her for quite some time, but those feelings are unanswered and I really think the best thing for you would be to break up the friendship entirely, unless you want to feel like a loser until she moves somewhere else. If you have an attraction with the opposite sex, you're never going to be able to last as friends. You can't just ask your feelings to turn themselves off.

Its not we were complete strangers...we'd known each other for a pretty long time...wth was I supposed to do ? I couldn't see her being hurt by that motherfucker...there was no way in hell that I was ever gonna leave that be... And I don't wanna let her simply disappear from my life... I'm still absolutely crazy about her.. 

I was like this with my friend Camille who I met on my first online game, which was Final Fantasy XI. She also met a guy on there and decided to date him instead of me because she was interested in 'the bady guy' type. She knew that I really liked her and everything, and that I had feelings for her, it's just that she didn't feel the same way about me. But, with the guy she met on there...I knew that dumfuck before she did, and he was a HORRIBLE person. She didn't believe me on how horrible he was. He did lots of mean things to other players on the online game and fought with everyone on the Linkshell (community group). Then something horrible happened...she flew down to visit him...

During the second week of visiting her, he snuck downstairs into the guest room and raped her. She hid this from me because she didn't want to tell me that he took her viriginity away from her. Until she started to break up with him, she finally told me. I literally vomitted in front of her on my webcam and she was crying so hard on hers when we were chatting online. Her father was also FURIOUS at him when Camille told her father what he did to her. About a year and a half ago, she tries to start talking to him and asks him why he did what he did. I got angry at her and told her, "You'd really think he would give you a clear answer about that, Camille? He has NO HEART. He deserves all the hell God has given him!!" (his father committed suicide a few months before she broke up with him, and he killed himself in front of his whole family) Then that sick bastard (Camille's ex) thinks that Camille wants him back in her life and starts getting all lovey-dovey on her. I told her to block him and she did.

In the end, my friend Camille said she was EXTREMELY sorry that she didn't listen to me about him at first. I know how you feel, GodOfWar. Girls don't give us nice guys a chance a lot of the time until they realize when they are endangered by a guy they chose over us.