I love a girl who doesn't love me

[huaxiong90]

trasharmdsister12 said:

huaxiong90 said:

Read my thoughts.

Did so. I agree with you to an extent. I was in a similar position as GodofWar and although I said I never told her I loved her, I did tell her about my feelings, just never how strong they were. We were best friends at the time that happened and we had both even told each other we've never had a friendship this strong with anyone else.

After that she went out with 3 different guys over the span of a year and a half, and every time she'd just end up coming back to spend time with me after the breakups while neglecting me during the relationships. I just didn't understand it. I did tell her she was making a mistake with one of them and that probably tarnished her relationship with me somewhat but she suffered for her mistake enough without me making it worse for her by rubbing it in her face or leaving her to deal with it alone when she found out he was gay.

With me, if they refuse to listen the first time and end up getting hurt, I just ignore them and avoid them. I never "loved" a girl who didn't love me back, but I did know some people whom were going through hard times in their relationships. Despite the fact that I would advise them with the logical way of dealing with their situations, they wouldn't listen, and only ended up getting more hurt. And then they'd come back to me. Once then, I'd tell them bluntly to "fuck off and deal with it on their own".

Yeah, it's a harsh thing to do, but there was one guy who really tested my patience...I kept telling him to just dump her and get over her already, as she was treating him like a complete liability (for the lack of a better word) and he would only be hurt more and more to the point of suicide. He kept getting worse day after day, and just refused to heed my advice. Afterwards, I started to ignore him...not sure what he's up to now, but I honestly don't care either. If he doesn't want to listen to his friends, he shouldn't go to them in the first place and waste their time.