I love a girl who doesn't love me

[Baalzamon]

trashleg said:

NiKKoM said:

Nehuh.. don't be negative!  girls and their doubting... the new love is better... cause it's current.. in the OP's case he will have found a girl who has the same feelings for him as he has for her.. which the first one wouldn't answer... my gf knows my what if girl.. and sure she was scared I would still have feelings for her.. which I have.. but that love turned into care..  she understand that she was an important part of my life in my past.. now she's just a part in my life.. and my current gf is the more important part of my life... the love feelings for my what if girl turned into caring.. and a new love feeling came with my current gf.. better? worse? I don't know.. cause the love feeling didn't occur on the same time... so I don't care and can't and won't compare them..

we all have baggage in our lives... some more then others.. unless it's trying to kill you.. we'll be fine..

this hurts my head. i've only had two boyfriends and one of them, we were really young so it was stupid. the other, didnt carry any feelings or love for me the entire time we were together. im not negative as such. Just, cautious.

im glad you can be so honest about these things though, all of you :D

why date somebody you don't care about...I don't get it