your a good friend and i've been in this situation before but i never told her. the worse thing is that she felt she always need to be with somebody.we had hella chimisrty. i even wrote a song for her and told here about it. shes in an abusive relationship now for about 4 yrs and before it started i tried to wake here up the night he gave her an x pill (she has a whole in her heart)that she didn't take.the guy is 1 big fat p***y and scared of confrontation with men. i wanted to beat him until he was black and blue but that would not have solved the problem.those same four yrs ago i told her this is your house and you say wht goes, but she wasn't strong enough to get it through her head.i used to blame my self for her situation, but its her life not mine so slowly i let it and her go. she was kick out of her apartment for break the rule about domestic violence although she was the 1 that got beat she didn't report it so she was kick out.now i see her rarely and think about the whole thing. if a women ever need to grow balls its her. i nolonger have simpathy for her cause she doesn't respect her self and is in denial.