| Aldro said: You handled things the wrong way... I mean.. "I love you".. What the HELL man?! She clearly had no feelings for you and honestly, if she dated that douche you should stay out of it and leave them be. She's clearly attracted to the "bad guy" type, probably due to confidence which makes me wonder if you really were as confident as you thought you were. Takes balls to do what you did though, so gj. All relationships will end eventually (at our age, I asume you're not 21 ) and what we gain from them is one thing -> Experience. Even though you never really were a couple, you had a pretty nasty crush on her and you managed to stay friends with her for quite some time, but those feelings are unanswered and I really think the best thing for you would be to break up the friendship entirely, unless you want to feel like a loser until she moves somewhere else. If you have an attraction with the opposite sex, you're never going to be able to last as friends. You can't just ask your feelings to turn themselves off. |
Its not we were complete strangers...we'd known each other for a pretty long time...wth was I supposed to do ? I couldn't see her being hurt by that motherfucker...there was no way in hell that I was ever gonna leave that be... And I don't wanna let her simply disappear from my life... I'm still absolutely crazy about her..
