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lolita said:

My life has no direction and no ambition... I simply do not know what to do. I just need to figure out a way to earn some money... Easier said than done though, when (some) social situations send me into panic attacks (especially when I'm at a loss of what to do, I panic). I sometimes wonder if it would be best to force myself to get a job that forces me to deal with people all the time. I wonder if that would cure me.

But despite this, I feel quite happy. I'm lucky to have him.


Yes, you should get a job that forces you to be around people.  I typed a long witty reply and it just vanished!   Long story, short:  I was as shy as they come in highschool, joined the military and realized I was pretty awesome.  Get a job and meet some new people.  You'll likely find that you're more amazing than you think.  Plus, sitting at home isn't going to help you improve your life, social issues, or financial issues.  Besides, if it doesn't work, you can always quit your job.