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neerdowell said:

As of the 2nd of January I got a notice from my ex that I will be facing a lawsuit for rape and sexual assault; my life is effectively over.

I am not sure whether to panic or rejoice knowing that if I am convicted I surely stand to set a precedent as the only virgin convicted of rape.

I really shouldn't even joke about the matter but I'm not even sure how to feel right now. This is one of only like two things in my life that I haven't been able to simply laugh off. I am simply at a loss.


I see where you stated you were still a virgin but what would make her go through the trouble of filing a suit like that?  Is it for money?  And if you are going to court for what is recognized as a malicious felony, weren't you arrested, first?  As far as I know, you can't just send somebody a subpoena to court saying "You're being sued for rape." Some sort of criminal charge has to be filed first--and nobody is going to risk their career making an arrest of that magnitude without some evidence.  It can't just be her word against yours.