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Kwaidd said:

interesting that so many are looking at this as solely a method to supress and control/belittle the rights of gay men and women in our military.  and now miraculously they are free because of the repeal.

on the contrary, because of the intolerance, hatred, and discomfort that so many still feel around or towards such individuals, I think the don't ask don't tell was a means of protecting them from these attitudes by keeping it quiet.  and from a military standpoint, you need everyones head in the game and on the same page...not distracted by worrying about the guy in next shower stall over..whether its the ignorance of a bigot angry at the gay person, or the gay man or woman knowing the next person over has ill will towards them.  /shrug

i just think that because of the unfortunate amount of intolerance that is still in our society, that its better for all involved to keep things quiet.

 

i do however agree with a few others comments about our country going down the shitter..as i believe we could very well be in the "final days of rome".  Our society as a whole I believe has lost some of the fundemental values that made us what we are/were.  The family unit is crumbling, respect for other people is nil, patriotism? what's that? our financial stability?  look at how many foreign cars are on the road...where does that money go?  vast majority doesn't stay in the states.  and noone gives a rip

Don't ask and don't tell wasn't protecting gays. It essentially meant that if anyone found out you were gay you'd be thrown out of the military. The don't ask part wasn't sanctioned if it was not respected (never heard of anyone getting thrown out for asking if soeone was gay). It was also discriminatory, as it didn't apply to heterosexuals (no one was ever thrown out for saying they were straight). If anything, the people who feel "intolerance, hatred, and discomfort" towards gays should be thrown out, not the gays themselves.

And drop the apocalyptic scenarios.



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