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sapphi_snake said:
Kasz216 said:

Also, that stuff totally should matter, because your life would of took a completely different career path if the person you married didn't turn out to be such a deceptive douche.

I mean take for example the very common example of people changing or leaving a job because their mate lives in another country.  Direct earning potential completely destroyed there... if you didn't move due to their direct deception and false advertising of themselves you'd be way higher up career wise rather then having to start over.

If it was a buisenss they'd be fined by the government like hell for that.

Well considering what you said in the pst above this one, it makes sense that you gave up having a big career in order for your GF to have one. You didn't really give up something you wanted (which esentially doesn't make it a sacrifice). However a person who would give up something they wanted very much (like a career), so that their SO could have one is simply an idiot!

Also it shouldn't matter. It's too subjective to have any place in a court of law. People should be responsable for their own decisions, and your business analogy is wrong, as people and corporations are fundementally different. You Americans need to stop being so sue-happy and start taking responsability for your bad decisions.


Eh, i'd of enjoyed it more then working temporary jobs and minimium wage jobs.   However she'd be happier doing her job then i'd be doing that job, and I'm happier doing the crappy jobs in the short term then she'd be.

If I were single i'd of definitly went that way.  As a career it was the most fun option I had at that point, and like I said, being rich is better then being poor.   At that point I was pretty much boxed in to a high paying job I liked, a high paying job I didn't like, or no advantage to having gone to college.