JOKA_ said:
I've skimmed through this thread a little, and you are very good at giving vague answers. I'm intrigued...what did she say?
Also, as for what you should do, is focus on yourself. Don't care about how she is going to feel. If she wants to do something and invites you too, just think about if you want to do it or not. If it sounds fun or interesting then go. If it doesn't do something else that you would enjoy. She shouldn't be a factor anymore. Do what you want to do. |
If he starts declining her invites now, she's going to think that he never really genuinely wanted to hang out with her as a friend but just wanted to get into her pants. Many self-proclaimed "nice guys" fall into this category.
In an ideal world, men shouldn't let their dick dictate what they are willing to put up with. If you are going to do a favor for a woman you are interested in, ask yourself if you would do the same if you knew that she wouldn't ever fuck you.