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I'm guessing you are not good at picking up signals?

That makes it a tough one for sure.

There are 3 main plays I'd say

 

1) The obvious direct... "Did you know i was asking you out?"   Which can be kinda awkward.

2)  Just keep doing it untill you do pick up signals.

3)  The "cowards" play.  Explain your probablem to someone else who works with you who you trust and who talks to her.

Tell him to say "Hey I was talking to Jim about what he did over the weekeed/week (whatever) and he mentioned that you two went to (whatever you did).   Was that a date?

 

Option 3 is more or less an option i've given many friends who I knew weren't going to do 1 or 2 anyway.