Figured a darth-style thread title might fetch me some more attention. Anyway, my story is thus;
Yesterday (Veteran's Day/Remembrance Day for you Canadians/Euros), I went out with a girl for, like, the first time ever, except i'm entirely unaware as to whether she interpreted it as a date or not, given that my signaling wasn't very strong (except for the fact that i was awkward as fuck while asking her, which is otherwise quite uncharacteristic of me)
Now i am at an impasse. I have no idea what she thought happened, or what she thinks of me in particular (beyond general friendliness). We're co-workers at the same internship where the majority of our interaction has been thus far.
Another opportunity has been presented to me to interact with her: the midnight screening of the new harry potter movie. Now, this would be fun in and of itself, but it would require me to sink a good deal of money into, given that it would require a taxi ride (though a shared taxi ride because we live in the same apartment complex), preorder tickets, and other possible sticky consequences. I am both cheap and lazy, so the only thing to really get me into this is this peculiar romantic motive
So what should i do? Should i find out if her feelings are mutual before sinking a bunch of money into this, or should i just shut the hell up and do it and see where it goes?
If the former, how would i go about that? Is there some non-direct way i can ascertain these things at minimal cost and risk?
-Signed: total n00b at women
PS: Smartass answers will be dealt with by Diablos (though i'm well aware that i'm asking for it)
Monster Hunter: pissing me off since 2010.
