Smashed said:
I have friends, I'm not a loner. I get along with people nicely, even if its just talking to a random person. Still I feel this way. I feel abandoned by my close friends, my life long friends that I grew up with. I don't know why.. it's almost like they moved on, and I didn't. |
i had sorta the same problem. back in MS i felt like all my usual friends had moved on to different friends and different lives, leaving me behind. i got pretty depressed and i felt bad alot. but then i realized that, sometimes, friends just grow in different directions and paths, they grow apart.
so i decided to start talking to more people, make some new friends, and find some old "long lost" friends. it worked out and now me and my friends are thick thieves and i dont feel bad anymore. im actually pretty happy. though i know that, someday, we may all grow apart and go our own ways, im glad for what we have know.
try talking to friends and family more. whatever you do, dont shun them away. they can help ALOT. maybe spend some more time with friends just hanging out and doing random stuff. you may become really close. maybe you could try to hook back up with your old, life long friends. and, hell, maybe you could think about finding a girlfriend. they can really help.
i hope these help, im normally not good at talking to people
. fell free to explain more if you want to or if you dont think my suggestions will work.







