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Smashed said:
TX109 said:
Smashed said:
TX109 said:
Smashed said:
TX109 said:

what do you mean by "nothing seems to really go your way at all"? 


Everything I attempt to do with my life 90% of the time fails, it's never right.

hmmmmm.....anything particularly stressful going on in your life right know?


I feel abandoned by lots of people at this point. Nothing really stressful is going on in my life at this very moment, though.

I feel more lonely than anything.

so you feel lonely and abandoned which, in turn, is making you depressed. i can understand that, trust me. who do you feel abandoned by? friends? family? why do you feel abanoned? like, are people just no longer talking to you, or do they seem to avoid you?

im sorry for all the questions. i just really want to find out what's bugging you so maybe i can help. this whole "i dont feel like it's worth living"thing is really scareing me. and i can tell you, ive felt this way before.


Let's see..

I have friends, I'm not a loner. I get along with people nicely, even if its just talking to a random person.

Still I feel this way.

I feel abandoned by my close friends, my life long friends that I grew up with. I don't know why.. it's almost like they moved on, and I didn't.

i had sorta the same problem. back in MS i felt like all my usual friends had moved on to different friends and different lives, leaving me behind. i got pretty depressed and i felt bad alot. but then i realized that, sometimes, friends just grow in different directions and paths, they grow apart.

so i decided to start talking to more people, make some new friends, and find some old "long lost" friends. it worked out and now me and my friends are thick thieves and i dont feel bad anymore. im actually pretty happy. though i know that, someday, we may all grow apart and go our own ways, im glad for what we have know.

try talking to friends and family more. whatever you do, dont shun them away. they can help ALOT. maybe spend some more time with friends just hanging out and doing random stuff. you may become really close. maybe you could try to hook back up with your old, life long friends. and, hell, maybe you could think about finding a girlfriend. they can really help.

i hope these help, im normally not good at talking to people . fell free to explain more if you want to or if you dont think my suggestions will work.