Ya I realize this thread kinda died down, but its first read to me.
Interesting to note, most gaymers here seem to find themselves somewhat at odds with effemenite gays. Most seem to say they act and are attracted to straight acting or straight guys. Funny how its the same for me. Maybe gaymers tend to be more into the bad boys or macho men who show more of a masculine side.
I like video games, some sports, hot guys, and pretty much dont enjoy everything fashion, shopping or even remotely "lady-like".
But thats not to say I have anything against the more outgoing gay guy. I fully embrace that that is who they truely are, and are just acting like themselves. It really is sad to see some people in this thread say "why are they acting so strange" or "why dont they just act normal".... to them, that is their normal, they are being themselves. Of course it seems foreign and strange to you. And if it weren't for these "publically gay" people, there probably wouldn't be rights for any of us at all.
I think it was Cliffhanger who said it, that they always tend to fall for the straight guy, and even thinking of being with gay people just seems so uninteresting. Same thing for me. It seems so strange and weird, but its the truth; funny how I didn't think there were that many like-minded people.
And I don't find it offensive when people say "thats so gay", but it totally reinforces negativity to the word, which in and of itself is homophobia. So to the dude with the animal house avatar, just make a mental note that its not the best choice of words.
