The Gay Thread

[dunno001]

lightbleeder said:

P.D: I'm not attracted to men in any way, but I've recently developed a curiosity of getting some anal pleasure (I know there are a lot of nerve endings on the anus) and I would like my girlfriend to do some stuff to me on that region, any tips or recommendations?

**Please note: the following reply is of a mature nature, and may not be suitable for work.

Best thing to do is actually speak with her about it. There's a fair gambit of things that can be done, and different people like different things. The most common one, that either she or you can do, is fingering. The finger is fairly slender, and easy to control depth on, but you will need to be careful of the fingernail. Do NOT use a finger with a long nail!

Other things she can do, though they may seem more disturbing, is licking or a strap-on. Because of the... nature... of that area on a guy not tending to produce love juices, there are quite a few people (of both genders, mind you) who don't care for doing this. It also has the downside of not getting many of the stimulators inside the anus, but for some, the moisture on the outside is great. Regarding the strap-on, contrary to popular belief, a woman using one on a guy does not mean he's gay. Just like women have a G-spot, so do men, around the area of the prostrate, inside the anus. Some guys find that this prostrate stimulation makes... other actions... feel that much better.

There are some women, however who don't like doing that to a guy, period. There may be several different reasons for it, I'm not going to delve into those. In which case, you're going to have to do it yourself. If you don't relish the finger option, there are several other things that you can insert yourself for stimulation. I would start with a relatively small (but not tiny, you'll see why) anal plug. Something in the realm of 3-4 inches long, with a girth of about 1 inch. Use this to determine where your favorite stimulus point is. Ones that are fairly close to the entrance of the anus may be further served by a vibrating bullet. If you find that your point is deeper, you may need to go with a full-on vibrator. Shop around for these, as prices vary wildly. You don't need a $200 "massager." Be careful of going too cheap, though, as those may be poorly made and subject to break. And I think the last thing you want is a trip to the ER to remove that...