| wfz said: I don't see what's wrong with saying "I'm sorry, I'm just not interested in you like that." Here are some other examples: "We go to different colleges, it would be too difficult for us to date and I'd rather not."
There are an infinite amount of ways to turn her down by saying "no" rather than saying "omfg i'm bi and I have a boyfriend!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!" |
Well there's all kinds of situations when that won't be effective. Take this for example:
Salvatore: I'm just not interested in you like that.
Pam (let's call the girl Pam): Why not? Is there something wrong with me?
Salvatore: No It's just that...
Pam: Well are you seeing anybody else?
Salvatore: Um no, but...
Pam: So, if you're not seeing anyone why can't we at least give this a try?
Salvatore: Well um...
Pam: Come on Salvatore! Tell me, why can't you at least give this a try?
Salvatore: Screw it I have a boyfriend!
Pam: O_o
Salvatore: Oopsy...
(Flash forward to the next day when all his friends know he's bi, his mother is weeping and his homophobic father is chasing him with a crowbar)
This could happen, the girl from what he told me is ballsy and Salvatore (while he doesn't realise it) is naive and easy to break (the poor fool was intending to take her to a restaurant for their meeting, and she could've easily misinterpreted that as a date - thankfully I set him straight about that). Maybe I'm a little bit paranoid. but I like to be extra carefull when I do such things, and I think my paranoya is rubbing off on him too, but if it keeps him fron getting burned then so be it.
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