| richardhutnik said: And what I wrote is that this isn't middle of the road, but a skill. It is not to say life can't overwhelm, but there is no downside at being able to find good in where you are irregardless of where you are. It is a bit like having wealth or good friends or good health... no need for moderation here. |
Yes there is a downside to that. If you always do that and it becomes a habbit you can wind up constantly resorting to that instead of taking action and fix the problem. You can end up living a life of denial because of fear and lack of assertiveness.
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