KylieDog said:
Only the shallow ones. Honestly if he wasn't putting on weight she'd just find some other shallow excuse.What next? He is starting to look old? Yeah that happens when people age.
Honestly when you commit to a relationship it damn well better be because you like the person enough for it to be the only reason if need be, because it will need be when you're both old, grey and ugly.
She wasted 10 years based on him being 'slender'? Dumb as well as shallow. |
If I was in a situation like that (say I got married and the wife let herself go after pregnancy), I would stand by my woman. But chances are, I probably wouldn't have sexual attraction to her anymore . And for a lot of middle-aged women in the 21st century western world, they have a very urgent need for sex and feel it is a very important part of a marriage. And she would in turn be the one doing the leaving. Because all these sex therapists have brainwashed couples into thinking that something is wrong if the fire is gone and what not. Personally, I think it is completely natural if the sexual fire/hunger died out in a relationship after awhile. It's a completely normal phenomenon. Sexual chemistry starts off high (because human nature wants us to make babies) and then sexual chemistry naturally drops off gradually over time. Back in the old days, it was kind of accepted that the fire dies out after awhile. But in our sex-obsessed society of today, people have this idea that people should still be having wild passionate sex on a regular basis until death. That's unrealistic fantasy. It's no wonder the divorce rate is so high. People have very unrealistic expectations of what marriage should be about.
So the situation goes both ways. Yes she should be loyal to her man. But he also has to live with the fact that his wife is not some submissive doll that puts out on command. Sexual attraction is not a choice. If the wife isn't sexually attracted to him, then why should she be forced to have sex with him? The same goes for men. We can't be expected to perform on command if we come home to an obese 200 pound wife. Personally I like women who have extra cushin for the pushin. But there's a difference between that and obese.
