Yeah we both gained some weight, and noticed it. That's why we took action to change (I changed the way I eat, he walks to work everyday). We were near overweight but now are well within the normal weight range. I still have some more to lose to get into some of my old clothes though. We're really considerate and I think we want to remain attractive to each other. I mean we're a couple and it's sort of part of being one to make the relationship last.
But I don't see telling him he's fat or vice versa being an issue for us. We're the sort of people to notice our own weight gain (without being obcessed) and take action before it gets out of hand. If I had to tell him though, it would be hard but I would tell him that I keep myself pretty for him, and I would like him to do the same for me. I would suggest to him to maybe lose some weight, so I could find him more attractive. It might seem quite direct but he's one of the only people I can be 100% honest with.
Anyway, fatness is a definite turn off. I wouldn't bitch about a few pounds though.
