| sapphi_snake said: @slimebeast Like I said, 14-year-olds cannot consent to have sex, mainly because they cannot comprehend sex and it's consequences. He went to a consuler, so he was obviously disturbed by this experience. Plus him getting hard has nothing to do with him wanting to have sex with her, or even being aroused by her. When a guy has his genitals stimulated he gets hard. It has nothing to do with his mental state or his desire to have sex with the person stimulating his genitals. It's an automatic response. You, as a docotor, should know that. This "blame the victim metality" that people like you have causes great distress and humiliation to males that have been sexually abused by women. |
Not justifying it, agreeing with it, etc.
But you leep saying that a 14 year old cannot consent to have sex? That's utterly false. You keep trying to turn this into a text book law definition. Many times in issues like this you really can't have a text book definition. A 14 year old could surely have a clear mind and make that decision.
Stimulating of genitals only gets you so far. Dis-interest, etc will spurn your boner. He very well could have been sexually abused. It's also perfectly likely that he wanted sex, enjoyed sex, was turned on and decided to have sex.
It's completely a cultural/societal thing. If you grew up a few hundred years ago, it wasn't all that insane/crazy for a 14 year old to have sex. You do acquire the ability of those parts for a reason.
