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FootballFan said:

Oh yeah....marriage is pointless anyway. Who needs a piece of paper proving that you are commited to your partner? Waste of time/money/effort if you ask me. Unless, a hetrosexual couple have a child then the man must be married in order to be given any rights...

Ehm, anyone that wants to inherit? Social benefits? Different taxing? Even more extreme things like having a dunno-how-many-days leave from work in case your partner dies....all those things can only be given by a "piece of paper"

Seece said:

Also zexen I'm sorry for ranting at you, it's just when i see guys IRL go from one extreme to the other, then becoming gu(a)ys totally defined by their sexuality .. it annoys me.

I don't know enough about your circumstances IRL, I can say on here there was little reason for you to pretend you were bi and not gay though .. ...

Pretending? Who did pretend? You could say the first, I dunno, 19-ish years of my life I pretended to be straight, it's hardly the truth, it's just that I hadn't found out what I really was. We come to terms differently to things, I never pretended anything, I just hadn't realized yet things that I realized later...

You shouldn't assume I was "shit scared" about coming out in a website because that's, well, simply not true at all