nitekrawler1285 said:
By being an active and visible you have far more opportunity to change things than you do by leaving. People are always astounded to find out that I'm gay simply because I don't fit the perceived stereotypes. Simply by being an active and visible member of my community I have managed to change many negative attitudes. Not only about homosexuality but African Americans and other attitudes as well. People often don't understand how the world can be different from what they assume it is until they perceive that change. If nothing else I might ask a little patriotism of you and say that the community that grew you and allowed you to foster your beliefs and ideals might be worth sticking around to support in it's darkest hours. Either way I wish you the best of luck. |
Thanks for the pep talk, but I have been on this site (and in my community) for years talking about this, and I don't think I have changed more then a handfull of peoples minds. I live in a small midwestern town, and they are very much like minded thinkers. Not much local I need to do to keep the spirit around here.
Not that I think anything that's going to happen is remotely this bad as what happened in Germany in the 1930's, but I am sure there are some percentage of Jews that wanted to leave in the late 1920's, but didn't because they loved there country so much, so they chose to stay and try and make it a better place.
If I was living in NZ and the US was attacked by, say, China, and the US needed able bodies to fight, I would go back and fight for the US, but I am not going to stick around and watch my own country destroy itself.
Good to hear you have been successful at improving your community. The difference with your situation and this one, is you don't see every media outlet, and people in political power telling your community that being gay is bad, any the only people who are pro gay are evil. The people around you just don't know any better, and all you have to do is educate them on the truth. I have to contradict the White House, Congress, CNN, MSNBC, ABC, CBS, NBC, the New York Time, and the movie industry. How am I to compete with that?







