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Raistline said:
Lostplanet22 said:

If you are above 40 and you say you don't want to have an relationschip ever I think the chance is very big they never will...But yeah I can't prove it they will never end up in a relationship. Remind me in 50 years again then we will know they mean it.

I still don't see why it is all imporant though (kissing a girl)...It is important if you want to have a relationschip sure but I still don't see why people  who don't want it or never did end up being called => Losers, failures that I saw a lot in Ny and West European countries.

It's a whole right of passage into manhood kinda thing. With kids having sex in thier early teans noawadays it is just exacerbating the issue. It is the idea that you are not a man unless you have had sex with a women, the ultimate teen conquest of manhood. The idea is, if you have not even kissed a woman then you are far away from being a man since sex is much further down the line.

That is really the best way I can think of expressing why it is all important.

Yeah, it almost seemed like nobody would bring this up. This is obviously the main reason everyone looks down on these people and laughs at these statistics (with few exceptions), yet we all pretend otherwise...

I'm not interested in the relationship deal at the moment, and I actually may never get into it in my lifetime. Montana's claim about people in relationships being happier / living longer sounds interesting, but I don't see how getting in a relationship would make me happier or extend my lifespan (I'm quite sure I'm a lot happier than average).

Either way, I won't be forcing myself into anything just because society pressures me.