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Lostplanet22 said:
NJ5 said:
Lostplanet22 said:

I did. 'Who don't want it' = kissing and going in a relationship

Where did you read that 40-50% Japanese woman between 30-50 don't want kisses or relationships?

And even if that were true according to some poll, what makes you think that they're right? Today someone says they don't want a relationship, tomorrow they're in one. Happens all the time.

 

If you are above 40 and you say you don't want to have an relationschip ever I think the chance is very big they never will...But yeah I can't prove it they will never end up in a relationship. Remind me in 50 years again then we will know they mean it.

I still don't see why it is all imporant though (kissing a girl)...It is important if you want to have a relationschip sure but I still don't see why people  who don't want it or never did end up being called => Losers, failures that I saw a lot in Ny and West European countries.


It's a whole right of passage into manhood kinda thing. With kids having sex in thier early teans noawadays it is just exacerbating the issue. It is the idea that you are not a man unless you have had sex with a women, the ultimate teen conquest of manhood. The idea is, if you have not even kissed a woman then you are far away from being a man since sex is much further down the line.

That is really the best way I can think of expressing why it is all important.