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MontanaHatchet said:
Akvod said:
MontanaHatchet said:
Akvod said:
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Akvod said:
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Akvod said:
You cannot become "Gay" by choice. Having sexual intercourse with someone of the same sex doesn't make you "gay". If that was so, being raped by a prison mate will make you gay.

You may argue that the college student desires to have sex, but I will point out that the student does not desire to have sex out of a desire for the same sex, but for money. I'm sure there are a lot of things we do for money, but don't necessarily want to do.

Sex or no sex, when you are sexually ATTRACTED to someone of the same sex, you are gay. So enough of this bullshit or closeting yourself, by reassuring your sexuality by just your actions.

Except that's different, because that's not consensual at all. If you choose to have sex with someone, that's something different entirely. 

And to answer the thread, no. Dicks are icky.

Did you read the sentence right below that? >.<

It's still consenting to sex, even if for money. No one is forcing him to have a butt orgy or bukkake, he's just volunteering for it. There's no way around it.

But is he sexually attracted to the same sex?

He may very well be. But then again, I'll likely never understand what will compel a straight person to have gay sex with someone else. And I don't think I ever will.

See, I just don't see how the rubbing of organs somehow changes the complex nature of your sexuality. I just do not see it. I think sexuality is here *points to brain*, and skins touching each other don't change the composition of it.

Except the whole point of sexuality is that you have sex with your sexual organs (a new record for the word "sex" in one sentence). In fact, that's a great big cop-out. If I go around having gay sex all the time and starring in gay pornos, but I keep telling myself that I'm straight, does that make me straight? No. Actions speak louder than words. People are defined by their actions, not how they think. If someone is agreeing to have gay sex, they're gay to some degree.

What I was going for was that it was a copout NOT to have gay sex, and convince yourself that you're straight, even though you're horny for other money.

That's what CLOSET-homosexuals are (although the term has expanded into those who simply keep their sexual acitivities a secret as well)