Is a hug at the door, on a first date, an automatic friend zone?

[CommonMan]

trashleg said:
she asked you if YOU wanted a hug because you hadn't made the move on HER.

you're well in there

I thought this was fairly obvious as well.

You're golden, you've got a gal who isn't afraid to make a move. However small you feel that gesture was, at 16 this takes a lot of courage. Go out again, first base is waiting!