bimmylee said:
Oh, I'm not saying we aren't sexual beings. I totally agree with you on that. But in your proposed hypothetical situation, whichever person is denying their spouse the much-needed sexual release is the one being selfish. If your spouse wants sex, but you may not be in the mood, you make a sacrifice and give them sex anyway. It's still a matter of how willing you are to be selfless in the marriage relationship. Differing sex drives are ultimately irrelevant. Marriage is not something that you should just "try out" to see if that person is who you will be spending the rest of your life with. That's what dating is for. Once you get married, you've made the choice. Otherwise, marriage is pointless. |
See if more marriages were like this divorce would happen much less. Not enough people sacrifice for their spouses' needs.
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