bimmylee said:
Esmoreit said:
bimmylee said:
Esmoreit said:
dsister44 said:
Esmoreit said:
Oh man, that's roughly on the scale of "No More Herpes".
On topic. Go have sex but make it special. Believe me, saving for your weddingnight only to find out that you suck at it, isn't helping the mood. |
You know this from experience? 
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Never been married, luckily but damn can I imagine. You're preppng up for that special night for the past couple of months/years. Then that night you take off her dress, flopp on her body for 2 minutes and you're done. Bang, wedding night, time to sleep it off.
NÖÖÖÖ gimme my experience beforehand.
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If a couple has been saving themselves for marriage, then sex has never been a factor in their relationship prior to getting married. This means that they've wanted to be together regardless of how good in bed the other one may/may not be. If their love for each other before marriage was never based on sexual performance in the first place, then whatever happens on the wedding night will not change that. Also, if you don't know from experience, then you couldn't possibly comprehend the magnitude of years-worth of sexual energy being released at once. Sounds like a good time to me. I personally look forward to it.
In short, I strongly disagree.
Experience = not important at all.
Abstinence-based love > sexual experience.
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That's why couples believing in abstinence marry so incredibly young. Because of love and nót because they look forward to a wedding night. Believe me, aside from accidental pregnancies the only surefire way a swift wedding is coming is due to abstinence and hormones.
Not necessarily bad unless you count the fact that couples might marry to early while they don't even know if they are right for eachother in the long run. I've seen that happening way too often and yes, that is experience...
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If you're married, then you are with the right person. That's what "till death do us part" means. You're married now, so you make it work. People who get divorced in situations that do not involve infidelity or abuse (or any other such extremes) are often simply too lazy or selfish to make it work. (Most often, it's selfishness. It kills marriages faster than anything else.) And that's just inexcusable, especially if you have kids.
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It's not that easy man, life is too complicated. Let's say after a couple has sex, and the man/woman wants more than the other one, then you have someone with a much higher sex drive than the other. This has caused MANY MANY MANY relationships to collapse. We are sexual beings there is no avoiding that.
