The argument of "it doesn't bother me" is really just a way to forgo the point.
The same thing is said of the dualshock not needing batteries, or free online. You shouldn't care about these kinds of things, Jordy.
Even though psn is free, some 360 owners don't care. Some would rather have cross-game chat or some other triviality to justify not having a desirable feature. But you know already that it's only some who are like that, and not all 360 owners.
rechargeable controller? Who cares, I'll just go buy some rechargeable batteries.
Free online? Who cares, not enough people play ps3 games anyway.
BluRay? Who cares, I cannot see a difference between that and DVD anyway.
Hard Drive? Who cares, I have a computer for that.
It's just an endless argument against "I don't care", and it's a stupid argument at that; a folly to even engage in such banter. Nothing you can say will change anyone's mind.
And the same goes for PS3 owners as well. We make the same excuses. Better to just let sleeping dogs lie.