Yeah. Trust is definitely an issue. Probably the biggest issue. In the same boat, I'm not entirely sure I could resist being charming in the presence of another woman. I fear that he and I are cut from the same cloth. I work WAY too many hours and I have a big imagination, too. Even if nothing were going on when I was working, I'd probably think there was.
It's like karma just looked at him one day and said, "Hey, fuck you!" The guy hasn't been able to catch a break. I told him I'd have to ask my girlfriend's opinion. That was my way of stalling for time. I guess I have to tell him, "no".
Maybe some of our family can put him in a motel for a little while until he can get an apartment or something.