What was going through your mind when you lost your virginity?

[dunno001]

Esmoreit said:

zexen_lowe said:
"I can't believe I spent 20 years of my life without doing this"

Now I'm suddenly curious so forgive me for asking as it might be a stupid question but, in the case of homosexual sex, do you lose your virginity when you're top, bottom, or does both count?

I can tell you that will depend on who you ask. Some people will say either of them takes your virginity, others say that you still have some purity (if that's what you want to call it) until you've gone both ways. Personally, I take a mid-line approach, and declare virginity based on body part.

But then also, similar questions exist for straight sex also, with the same answer: is a blow job going to take your virginity? What if you only use a finger? Pull out before ejaculation? It's quite a myriad...