dunno, you REALLY sound a lot like an INTJ, ever heard of the myers-briggs personality sorter? I took it myself a few years back, even ordered a book that had a few tests in it for fun.
If you dont mind me asking, are you kinda introverted, and have ruminations, deep thoughts about a lot of things? Anyway, I found an online place kind of like this for INTJs, i'll give you the web address if you're interested, take care