Against probably my better judgment I'll throw out a prediction.
PS3 catches 360 holiday 2011 (if we're picking random weeks, 2nd week of December)
The software gap (also where gaming companies tend to make money) on the other hand I think will remain firmly on the side of the 360, maybe shrinking to 40m. I don't see the current attach rates changing immensely and the current gap of 100m+ is sizable in proportion to the change I'd expect to see in hardware. That said a change in the price of games due to digital distribution could drastically change what software numbers mean in the future.
Primarily an RPG player but have interest in any game that will make me think.