SciFiBoy said:
in principle I agree with you, however i'd be interested to know how you define "responsible" in this context. |
Its kinda hard to create a rigid definition. But I dont like the view certain people have today that the only way to have kids is to have a lot of money so they can travel, buy stuff and have kids. I think its selfish.
Im thinking if having one more kid is going to make me go out less cause of money I will still have the kid. And that is responsible.
I have to say I am religious so I see family as a sacred thing. For me, to have the government tell me that I cant have as many kids as I want is a big no-no unless they are starving, homeless, etc. Even then, its still tricky to know what exactly can they do.
I believe obviously in having kids that I can support. Im the youngest of 4, but things being what they are today I dont know if I ever will be able to afford having 4 kids myself. But I will certainly try.
This is a complicated matter.









