NiKKoM said:
For crying out loud what kinda advice is this? xD Don't scare him like that!! Now he will never date a women again.. I still stand by what I said.. you don't love your girlfriend otherwise you wouldn't cheat.. dump her before you get into a pity relationship.. |
It's only really an issue with these two particular girls.
Though yeah... I guess it is kinda scary looking back at it since it basically is like sleeping with a live hand grenade... but that's really the situation he's gotten himself into here.
You gotta disarm it asap if you wanna salvage it though. I've seen it happen to some of my less moral friends. They get a little board got out and cheat... one time not even in the same state! and it caught up to him.
He broke it off... then a couple years later when he was happy and at peace with everything... bam. Suddenly, through a friend of a friend he got dumped. His girlfriend found out... and just dumped him.
The longer it goes the worse it gets because they think "that was another day they didn't tell me." and see it as lieng for every day for however long it took them to find out.
Gotta defuse early if not just come straight out and tell them.